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原标题:让我掉下眼泪的,不止同性的爱。

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“I may have come close, but I never had what you had. Something always held me back or stood in the way. How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can't help but live as though we've got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But there's only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it. Right now there's sorrow. I don't envy the pain. But I envy you the pain.”

两分给画面,一分给最后火炉旁的长镜头,尾声处Elio父亲的台词填满整个分数线,被彻底感动。

Elio有一个“女友”Marzia,而Oliver也有很快地和当地的一个女孩十分热络。但是这种复杂的关系去又让你觉得这一切异常简单。Elio发现自己越来越被Oliver吸引了,虽然带着某种怨气。他对父母说,“我觉得Oliver有点高傲。” 他偷偷地观察Oliver,偷偷地溜到Oliver的房间里自慰。

你有一段美好的友谊,也许超过了友谊。我羡慕你。在我看来,多数父母都希望这一切烟消云散。祈祷他们的孩子就此收手。但是——我不是这样的父母,为了快速愈合,我们从自己身上剥夺了太多的东西,以致在三十岁时,自己的感情就已破产。每开始一段新的感情,我们能给予的便更少。但是为了让我们不要有感觉而不去感觉任何事情,是多么的浪费。

Elio应该也是一开始就也向观众一样不敢对这一切有永恒的期待。庆幸的是其实已经知道Elio和Oliver关系的Elio的父亲故意安排在Oliver回美国之前让他们一起去Bergamo旅行。

同时我也庆幸,老天虽然没有让我遇见一见钟情的人,却给了我这样的父母。

你能够感觉的他们好像是两个在围绕着对方旋转的物体,互相吸引,却因为旋转互相脱离。

你们俩相得益彰,在最猝不及防之时上天狡诈的找到了我们最脆弱的地方。你只要记住,我在这里。现在你可能不去想感受什么,或你从来不希望感受什么。或你不愿意向我倾吐这些事情,但是——请你感受你所感受的。

从头到尾你都感觉不到这两个男孩的恋爱和异性恋的初恋有任何不同。

“这是你第一天来时候穿的那件衬衫”,一见钟情这个词真美好,很可惜,我没能遇到那么一个人。这辈子都没能与人四目相对便擦出火花。但我懂,那是初恋时候才有的心情。Elio偷偷注视Oliver的眼神总能触动我,眼底带着阳光,无限温柔,眼睛里画着爱的人的样子,还会冒出无数的小心心。爱是藏不住的,就像咳嗽。Elio的炮友看的出来,Elio的父母更清楚,但他们没有当头棒喝,反而轻轻推了一把。

在肢体接触司空见惯,互相亲吻脸颊作为问候的意大利南部,Elio和Oliver无意是有意避免亲密的。一进Elio的房间,Oliver就马上趴在Elio的床上,有意无意地带着某种seduction(诱惑)。而到了晚餐时间,Elio发现Oliver还在睡的时候,没有直接叫他,更没有用手拍醒他,而是选择了假装不小心弄掉了一本书,吵醒了Oliver。电影看完的时候,你会某种程度上觉得Oliver当时在装睡。

几度邀请朋友们一起看,无奈直男太多,并不买账。我对这类电影一直不排斥,被【断背山】【单身男子】戳过相信“爱不分性别”的泪点,可能,我是伪直女。

夏天结束了,冬天开始了。

终于把去年年度最佳的唯一遗留看完。

回来之后父亲找Elio谈话了。这是整部电影我最喜欢的片段。他父亲说他知道他们之间的感情,其实很为他们高兴。他坦白说自己年轻的时候也有这样的一段感情,但可惜没有足够的勇气去面对。他希望Elio能够在现在的痛苦中找到幸福,因为他们之间的这种爱情,是非常珍贵而稀有的。

“懂,却不说破,是最高的情商,也是世界上最好的善良。”

在寒冷的阴郁的英国的冬天,真的很感激有这样一部设定在意大利南部夏天的电影。就凭这一点,电影开始的时候,你就像影片中的Elio跳进河中一样,迫不及待自己周围的现实消失了。

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“Look,' he interrupted. 'You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, don't snuff it out, don't be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others forget us sooner than we'd want to be forgotten is no better. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”

我说多错话了吗?——那我再说一件事情。让我们开诚布公,我也许曾经接近,但我从来没拥有过你们拥有的。总有些什么在阻挠我,或是挡在我面前。如何过一生是你自己的事情,你只要记住。上天赐予我们赋予我们的身体和心灵只有一次,而在你领悟之前,你的心已经疲惫不堪了。至于你的身体,总有一天,没有人愿意再看他一眼,更没有人愿意接近。现在,你充满了悲伤,痛苦,现在,你别让这些悲伤痛苦消失。也别丧失你感受到的快乐。

“Elio?”

——You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, don't snuff it out, don't be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others forget us sooner than we'd want to be forgotten is no better. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!"

片头是活泼的钢琴曲,画面是各种希腊青铜雕塑的照片、打字机、香烟、乐谱等等东西。这些东西对电影的设定给予了提示。钢琴曲辄然而止的时候,作为观众,你突然被丢到了意大利的夏天。

于是,我想说,这部片更让我感动的是Oliver的父母。

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